Will you be friends with your ex after the breakup?

by **house88kend** on Sat May 03, 2008 6:04 pm

I've wondering about this whole being friends with your ex after breaking up with them situation. For some people I know, they just can't be friends with their ex (as an outsider I think it's a shame knowing that they were friends for a long time before their relationship). Then again, I've heard that it is awkward to be together again and even harder to accept the fact of the break up, but im sure it varies between different people. Time does not heal all, but do you think that in the near future people will be able to be friends with their ex or is it still an impossible task?

Share your thoughts x3!
LOL

by **chibi-chibi** on Sun May 04, 2008 1:34 am

I think thatit depends on the people..maybe the boy sometimes wants their relationship to be as friends. For me, some people will be together back as friends.

by **wlccherry** on Sun May 04, 2008 5:07 pm

house88kend wrote: I've heard that it is awkward to be together again and even harder to accept the fact of the break up, but im sure it varies between different people.

Yeap. It's awkward to be together again when one couple changed becoming normal friends. But it's a waste to let go such a good friend just because both of them can't be couple anymore. If the reason of breaking is as simple as "parents don't allow", they absolutely can be friends but just need to control their feelings, not to continue fall deeper in love with each other.

house88kend wrote: Time does not heal all, but do you think that in the near future people will be able to be friends with their ex or is it still an impossible task?

Yes, time does heal but not 100%. Able or unable to be friends is depends on the two individuals. Some guys which practises "big man concept" mostly can't accept their ex to be friends. They'll feel akward but if they can break the invisible wall between them, they sure can be friends. P/S: Recently there is a show about this too....Sourire Pour Moi...a Chinese drama filmed in Langkawi Island.

by **BlueRadiant** on Sun May 04, 2008 6:17 pm

I guess it'll depends on the person's ego too.

by **meilee9024** on Sat May 10, 2008 7:59 am

I think it also depends on the mood of both sides too. eaten

by **changyong** on Sat May 10, 2008 11:45 pm

break liao sure no wanna be frd again gua.... (i dunno o, coz me never got a GF :P)

by **JapanKid89** on Sun May 11, 2008 11:04 am

I am still close friend with my first Ex, Now we are like sister and brothers~ three cheers~ nothing is imposible depend on the person also, usually for guys, those are really jackass la~ they can't be friend again~

by **RudeRabbit** on Mon May 19, 2008 5:25 pm

sure....which i am doing for 7 years ald..haha... hi!

but not so close la... bingo

anywhere, hope she can find some1 better than me....

by lawak_best on Wed May 21, 2008 1:44 am

I am not sure, because I am getting well with my gf. like

by **~J3ffr3ytjw~** on Thu Jun 12, 2008 12:09 am

lol
it's depend
but so far..i answer "yes"
and i think u know bout it ^^

by **house88kend** on Thu Jun 12, 2008 12:25 am

well...your answer is YES..haha, for me, I haven't have this kind of feeling yet ^^

by **kelly** on Thu Jun 12, 2008 2:29 pm

Although we r parted, but there is still feelings left... Red Face

by [KurokiNeko] on Tue Jun 17, 2008 11:58 pm

hmm, just like kelly said, there'll be some feelings left...
i guess i can be friends with my ex after break up, haha.

by lawak_best on Wed Jun 25, 2008 1:00 am

[KurokiNeko] wrote:hmm, just like kelly said, there'll be some feelings left...
i guess i can be friends with my ex after break up, haha.

Can you date with me? haha, jking only...anyways, I will still be friends back and maybe I will try another second shot to attract her again.

by Yuri on Thu Jun 26, 2008 3:35 pm

I will live in the best way I could and let him know I become better without staying within his network. uhm... sound more like some kind of revenge in showing off rite? I know the gal has no fault (I doubt it sometimes though) but I still wish to look more better than her when people talks about the matter (well, it's human nature to always compare and compete)

Sorry to share feeling here (actually I know should put at the other topic there about confession).