Have fun reading... my friend send it to me =], this makes me understand a lot more about boys...hehe

1. Guys hate sluts.

2. "Hey, are you busy?","how are you", "If you are busy, I won't disturb you" or "Are you doing something?" ~ 5 phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone or chatting in messengers.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him, even untill doing something that is childish.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.The boys always think that all wrong is being done by him only.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you and likes to say bad but funny things about you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything even untill the general knowledge but you always don't care of what they are saying...this makes the guy felt sad..

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if 1 guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes, the guy often have thousands problems to slove but you cannot see it all...

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

Well....I am a boy and..I think you are right somehow....;P

I am a boy too....

Well... Some interesting topic we got here... Hehe!

A lot of them are quite true for me. o_o

chibi-chibi wrote:49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

A day!? WHAT A RIPOFF!!!

But then again, I don't really want to read a girl's mind. Give her some privacy, will ya?

Yeah, knowing her secrets may be too much...haha, but sometimes we must know some except certain things lar...hehe

Hmm... the majority of those things are also quite true to me, in my opinion.

Irony wrote:But then again, I don't really want to read a girl's mind. Give her some privacy, will ya?

Same here... being the males that we are, we shouldn't actually spend most of our time thinking about what they're thinking... hoho

hmmm.. this is quite interesting!^^ thx 4 sharing anyway. we need more male reader here.. anybody agree wif what is written here?

chibi-chibi wrote:
4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

Hahahaha! I guess this could b true. ....except 4 the born-chatterbox and smooth-talker kinda guys maybe.

To say that....we sometimes didn't also really understand what a boy thinks...we only looked at their talent, looks, what he is capable of...but we also sometimes forget to see his heart...well, to be honest....I liked one tall and good looking boy but there is another boy and he is not so handsome and a buit shorter than the boy i liked who is very kind to me since form 4....finally I realized that the boy who cares me is my boyfriend today! He didn't come to me, but I come to him instead...telling him don't always do this to me and I agreed to be his girlfriend...

Well.....I am a boy...but I always respect girls.....especially my mom...girls are just as interesting^^

Hmm.... Dats a bit tricky one to answer for me. I do respect people regardless their gender (girls,boys,men,women.. All of em!). But, dats if their respect others as well. The thought of the 'recent incident' really scare my family.
-err.. sorry, out of topic-

Hehe! Lets talk about "no.16 Girls are guys' weaknesses".
Is it.... really.....?

I am a girl...but I think its true for me becasue my boyfriend falls on me easily~

The detail written its not entirely true, need to change abit, and need to add that guys nowaday are horrible~ only think of games only and never treat girlfriend properly~

I aggred! I think that should be an extra addon...haha...like...boys gets into games easily and forget abut girls...hehe...i dunno lar...no everybody is like that...but it seems that the recent finding indicate that.

(4 meilee, ur lucky if ur bf falls on u so easily. Hehe! Dats mean u don hav 2 fight 2 get his attention on u.)

Hahaha! Seems like the games charm are making difficulties for the girls to get attention from their 'super-ly agile button pressing thumbs equiped with unbreakable wits that has no ending' boyfriend.(probably only apply 4 the game addict).

But of course nowadays, there is an increasing number of girls who play games too. I guess they could play together then. Heheh! ^_^

Lets talk about "no. 37. Guys don't really have final decisions."

Oookayy..... Isnt dat a bit worrying if it were about finding the right girl for his life?

Agreed....for boys like us....

Haha! Must b tough..
Hm..
I guess marriage is a very different thing compared to when u first entered a relationship.

Yeap....love is complicated...but I try not to think much about it~

Hehehe! You're still young. There's much to think of other than dat of coz.